Valentine’s day is a day filled with love and romantic gestures. If you are with one you love, this is a great time to express your heartfelt feelings for him/her. No matter your relationship status, be a friend of few months or BFF of so many years. It could even be a wifey, hussy. You can make it count cos life is all about memories and every action today counts for memory tomorrow. So this val day, be romantic, do what pleases you and don’t forget to go the extra length to explore.
Here are some ideas to make your val day a memorable one.
1. Surround the Bed with Heart Balloons and Roses
Its just once in year, Spoil him by putting the atmosphere in a romantic way before inviting him over. A well cleaned fresh fruity scent is not a bad idea. Awaken the creativity in you, after all he is your love and in LOVE everything is fair. Hearts, balloons and roses can be gotten from most popular markets in town. You can save cost be buying ahead.
2. Send Someone/Yourself a Fancy Giftbox
Kill the stingy man/woman syndrome. According to Dr. Richard Nicastro Relationship Advice | Marriage Help | Dr. Rich Nicastro about generous and stingy men, he explained that when someone is considered “stingy” in a relationship, that person is experienced by his (or her) love partner as withholding needs or desires such as love, affection, money, sex, attention, or gifts. “Withholding creates a state of frustration and deprivation in the desirous partner,” he said.
According to Dr. Richard Nicastro Relationship Advice | Marriage Help | Dr. Rich Nicastro about generous and stingy men, he explained that when someone is considered “stingy” in a relationship, that person is experienced by his (or her) love partner as withholding needs or desires such as love, affection, money, sex, attention, or gifts. “Withholding creates a state of frustration and deprivation in the desirous partner,” he said.
Dr. Nicastro added: “The experience is one of, ‘You have what I want and deserve, and you’re intentionally keeping it from me.’ The stingy-withholding person is usually assumed to be someone making a conscious decision to withhold. This perception of intentionality creates feelings of anger and frustration in the other person.”
use the val day to recreate a connection with love.
3. Express love with the five senses.
4. Be a Romantic Boyfriend to Your Girlfriend.
a) Walk up to her and give her a long hug
A long hug is one of the most romantic ways of telling your girlfriend that you love her without actually speaking a word. A hug signifies romance, togetherness and puppy love.
Pick a random moment and just walk up to your girlfriend and give her a hug. Rub your hands over her back as you hug and hold on for at least a couple of minutes. She will feel like the happiest girl in the whole world.
b) Send her a link to a website which has romantic love messages
This tip is for guys who don’t have a creative way with words. Search for a webpage that is full of I Love You messages and send the link to your girlfriend by email, text message, Whatsapp or in a Facebook post. Write something sweet along with the link, for example:
- All the messages on this page come from my heart for you
- All these messages are exactly how I feel for you
- This website reads my mind and heart because these are my feelings for you. See More
5. Creativity is romantic.
Check out this creative idea
